We must be aware of, and fulfil our needs as a person. When we do this we are then going into a relationship to give rather than to get. Thus, we are complete before we meet our partner, not after. Of course, through giving we get back, but going in with the main goal being solely to get, is not healthy and will lead to a series of cracks in the relationship’s foundation. One of 2 things will inevitably follow – either an eventual topple of the relationship, or both partners staying in the relationship, unhappy. Life is not about ‘settling’ because we think it’s the best we can get.
I believe our relationship with ourselves is the corner stone of all relationships. When we are fulfilling our own needs – aligning our actions with our values, doing the work we love, stepping out of comfort zone – facing our fears, eating healthy food (90% of the time!), taking exercise, affirming our own feelings rather than avoiding them, embracing our sexual desires, taking time to be alone……all begin with ourselves. When we are meeting our own needs, then we are at a wholesome place to meet the partner that matches that. Our relationships affect every aspect of our lives. Having a loving relationship with yourself is the goal, then all the great stuff just follows!
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